tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9166485766669428485.post4282379000982025842..comments2024-03-19T11:06:12.642-05:00Comments on Where I've Been...and Where I'm Going: If Firefly Had LivedBriannahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04066881815556809319noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9166485766669428485.post-70642775763007138262016-01-16T00:06:38.398-06:002016-01-16T00:06:38.398-06:00I guess that's one phrase that can describe it...I guess that's one phrase that can describe it, it's just a lot harder to do than the phrase implies :)Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04066881815556809319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9166485766669428485.post-81611023786067239692016-01-16T00:00:03.407-06:002016-01-16T00:00:03.407-06:00Thank you so much. It's a weird feeling to be ...Thank you so much. It's a weird feeling to be grateful for your life, still miss the kids that aren't here and NOT feel guilty about that. It's taken a long time to get there.Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04066881815556809319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9166485766669428485.post-30337121190614540252016-01-05T18:27:46.082-06:002016-01-05T18:27:46.082-06:00I understand this post. Of course you would never ...I understand this post. Of course you would never wish any of your children had died. None of us would. But it's called "making the most of what you have." And to me, that honours the loss of those little ones who didn't make it. Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9166485766669428485.post-2302920615022114632015-12-31T07:22:23.473-06:002015-12-31T07:22:23.473-06:00Here from Mel's Creme post. Reading all of thi...Here from Mel's Creme post. Reading all of this through tears.<br /><br />I often reflect on my own losses and think about what would have been if those children had lived. For me it's not as clear-cut, as there were a lot of things happening, but I do know that life would have been different. The road I'm on now may not have happened. And I certainly would not have had the Beats.<br /><br />Part of the healing process requires us to reflect and wonder. To see that things are okay and to not be guilty about the good we have in our lives following tragedy. I'm glad you're able to do this.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.com