Monday, October 21, 2013

Capture Your Grief Day 21: Honour

This post is part of Carly Marie's Capture Your Grief.

Is there anything that you have done to honour your baby since they died? Did you give back to the community? Make a conscious decision to live as beautifully as possible? Take on the role of helping others in your situation? Maybe you work as an advocate for breaking the silence for our community.

Things I've done to honor Oscar, Bella, Tittle and Firefly:
  • Donations to our local hospital
  • Donations to Toys For Tots
  • Donations to our local food pantry
  • Donations to Mikayla's Grace and Forever In Our Hearts
  • Donations to the 4K program that they would have been in this year
  • Offered support, help and advice to others who are also on this path of grieving
  • Give Gus extra hugs and kisses for those I can't give to his siblings
  • Wear my remembrance jewelry to always have part of them with me
  • Live every day knowing I'm still their role model--and need to act like it


  1. Your babies are so honoured in every day and everything you do! I know they are all proud to have you as a Mama :)